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   This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Nicholas Piccolo who was born in New York on September 27, 1979 and passed away on August 18, 2005 at the age of 25. He was a very special person who touched a lot of hearts in the short time he was here. Nick will always be a part of us and will be remembered forever.






 Thank you Melody

 A Special Angel
There's a special angel in Heaven That is a part of me. It is not where I wanted him, But where God wanted him to be. He was here just a moment, Like a night time shooting star. And though he is in Heaven He isn't very far. He touched the hearts of many, Like only an angel can do. I would've held him every minute, If the end I only knew. So I send this special message To Heaven up above. Please take care of my angel, And send him all my love.
 Thank you Julie
Memories
He danced through our lives, Leaving traces of his smile and his sparkling eyes everywhere...
His laughter echoes through our thoughts and dreams everywhere...
Some times we reach out to hug And to touch a memory.
Our love for Him is neverending, But has been placed in a
special part of our hearts.


 Thank you Jana
  

 We Miss You Nicholas
Happy 2nd Anniversary in Heaven
We miss you dear Nicholas, more than words can say Our hearts were all broken when you had to leave that day. It wasn't suppose to be that way, why did you have to go?
Why the Lord called you home, perhaps someday we'll know.
Now you are in Heaven no worries and no pain And we know that someday we'll be together again. Free to soar among the clouds, float upon the wind
Your soul has been set free, your eternal life begins.
Be happy in Heaven son, for it was meant to be The Lord brought you home to start eternity. And we will always keep your memory alive
In our hearts remembrances of you always will survive.
And when the day comes for us to leave this earthly plain We'll be together as a family, whole once again. So our dear Nicholas, we all hope you know
That we all miss you and we love you so.
 Thank you Brandy

 Nick & DeeDee Forever in Heaven Thank you Dianne
 DeeDee RIP with Nick in Heaven (Angel Date 12/31/07)

   Forever Loved & Eternally Missed Nick, Rest in Peace in Heaven with your Grandpa Nicks Thank you Brandy
Only The Best 
A heart of gold stopped beating, two shining eyes at rest, God broke our hearts to prove,
He only takes the best.
God knows you had to leave us, but you did not go alone, for part of us went with you,
the day He took you home.
To some you are forgotten, to others just part of the past, but to us who loved and lost you,
the memory will always last. Thank you Dianne

 No Tears Past The Gate
Someone new has entered our eternal home above.
The Heavenly Gate has opened wide to welcome the one we love We cannot help the tears that fall our hearts need time to grieve when earthly life has ended and our loved one has to leave.
Yet even in the saddest time we know our Savior lives and we can trust completely in the promise that He gives
That in a glad reunion with the Lord our loved ones wait to welcome us in joy with no more tears beyond the gate.
 Collage shows the stages in Nicholas' short life time. He shall always and forever be in our Hearts. Thank you Quinn

 Thank you Casey

 Thank you Monica Do Not Stand At My Grave
Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there, I do not sleep, I am the thousand winds that blow, I am the diamond glint on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain, I am the gentle Autumn rain. I am the shining star at night, When you awake to the morning light.
My time has come, I am at rest, I am the sunset in the west, I am the clouds that race above, Where I watch over those I love.
Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there, I did not die. So, here the words that here I say, I am the love that guides your way.


 Nick's Resting Place Our Lady Queen of Peace Mausoleum in Gate of Heaven Cemetery Hawthorne, NY
 Xmas 2007

   Share your memories of Nick
Thank you for visiting. Please light a candle for Nick to let us know you were here. Also, feel free to contribute any photos, messages, or poems about him by clicking on the Tributes & Condolences tab at the top of this page. You can also send audio, video and picture files by emailing the website managers (Janet or Mike Piccolo) by using the designated links on the Audio & Video/Photo Album page. Thank you to all who write such beautiful words in his honor. Visit often as the site changes often. It means so much to us.
MikePiccolo1@yahoo.com
Also, please visit Nick at his other website at: http://hometown.aol.com/pebbles2678/nickpiccolo.html

 Thank you Julie


 Thank you Jackie
 Thank you Margaret
 Thank you Julie

 Thank you Monica

 I Thought Of You
I thought of you with love today, but that is nothing new. I thought about you yesterday, and the day befor that too. I think of you in silence, I often say your name, But all I have is memories and your picture in a frame.
Your memory is my keepsake, with which I'll never part. God has you in his keeping, I have you in my heart. I shed tears for what might have been, a million times I've cried. If love alone could have saved you, you never would have died.
In life I loved you dearly, in death I love you still, In my heart you hold a place no one could ever fill. It broke my heart to lose you, but you didn't go alone For part of me went with you, the day God took you home.
 Nick through the years Thank you Tammy
  Thank you Julie
 A Mothers Pain
You see me smiling. What you don't see is that I am screaming behind that smile. You see me go on with everything....work....groceries.....life in general. What you don't see is that it takes every ounce of energy I have just to breathe. You see me alone with my thoughts. What you don't see is me talking to Him You see me say "I am fine". What you don't see is the huge hole in my heart that can never be filled. You see me and think "she's back to normal". What you don't see is that there is no normal for me anymore. You see me and think "Oh my God I hope this never happens to me" What you don't see is that as much as I long for you to understand me... I hope this never happens to you either. You see me joking and laughing with others and think she must be getting over what has happened. What you don't see is that I can never forget, nor would I want to, you don't get over the loss of a child. You see me sad and don't know what to say so you keep going. What you don't see is all I really want is for you to ask how I am doing, really, and give me a hug. You see that life goes on. What you don't see is on August 18, 2005 that the life I had will never be the same . You see that I am strong...... do not be deceived. What you don't see is that I am weak and weary. Some days "I am 6 feet from the edge". What you see is a mask....a lie. The mask helps you cope with me and me cope with myself. What you don't see is the raw sometimes unbearable pain. You don't see me being unable to breathe. What you don't see is my despair. You don't see me screaming to heaven for God to give my son back. What you don't see you could never understand anyway unless you walk a mile in my shoes.... God Forbid.
 Thank you Ruth

 Thank you Jayne

 Thank you Dianne




 Thank you Quinn
Remember Me
To the living, I am gone. To the sorrowful, I will never return. To the angry, I was cheated. But to the happy, I am at peace. And to the faithful, I have never left. I cannot speak, but I can listen. I cannot be seen, but I can be heard. So as you stand upon a shore, Gazing at a beautiful sea, Remember Me. As you look upon a flower and admire it’s simplicity, Remember Me. Remember Me in your hearts, your thoughts, and your memories of the times we loved the times we cried, the times we fought, and the times we laughed. For if you always think of me, I will never be gone.
 Thank you Ann While We Are Apart Distance may separate us But my heart will never let you go, For I carry a part of you with me always. It keeps me going through the day. It brings a smile to my face and tears to my eyes. It is a part of my dreams that I live for and cherish. That part is my wish, my only one, To see you again soon. I know that wish will someday come true. But for now, I will hold in my heart The memory of you And never let you go.


 

 Thank you Jayne
 Thank you Jana


 Thank you Tammy


 Thank you Melody I’LL NEVER FORGET... JUST ONE MORE HUG...
I’LL NEVER FORGET THE TIMES WE SHARED THROUGH THICK AND THIN YOU’D ALWAYS BE THERE YOU HAD ONE OF THE BIGGEST HEARTS I HAVE EVER SEEN NEVER TARNISHED WITH ENVY OR GREED YOUR HEART BLEED WITH KINDNESS AND LOVE NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION YOUR HEART WAS TRULY ONE OF GODS GREATEST CREATIONS YOUR SMILE WAS ALWAYS SO GENUINE AND TRUE IT’S NO WONDER WHY SO MANY PEOPLE KNEW AND LOVED YOU YOU WOULD HAVE GLADLY GIVEN THE SHIRT OFF YOUR BACK EVEN TO A PERFECT STRANGER NOT KNOWING HOW THEY’D REACT YOU SEE, THE BIGGEST CONCERN OF THIS AMAZING MAN WAS TO LEND ANYONE WHO NEEDED IT, A HELPING HAND HAVING NICK AS AN OLDER BROTHER WAS TRULY A GIFT FROM GOD EVEN THOUGH HE WOULD TEASE ME ABOUT MY SPIKED HAIR, AND CALL ME BART SIMPSON WAY BEFORE THE TIME OF I-PODS I KNEW HE WAS SAYING IT OUT OF LOVE, AND SO WAS I WHEN I CALLED HIM A BERNSTIEN BEAR ON CHRISTMAS EVE, HE LAUGHED SO HARD I THOUGH HE WAS GOING TO CRY THE SAYING “HE WORE HIS HEART ON HIS SLEEVE” DOESN’T EVEN COMPARE NOT EVEN “HEART OF GOLD” COULD CAPTURE THIS GLARE HIS HEART SHINED LIKE BEAMS OF LIGHT FROM THE BRIGHTEST STAR NO MATTER IF YOU HAD JUST MET HIM FOR A DAY, OR SOME TIME LONG AGO AND FAR I WILL NEVER FORGET VACATIONS, TRIPS AND OUR LONG TALKS ABOUT LIFE AND LOVE IT’S AMAZING TO THINK HOW I WOULD GIVE UP MY LIFE JUST FOR ONE MORE HUG NICK OPENED HIS HEART FOR ALL OF US AND THE WORLD TO SEE A HEART OF PLATINUM NOT GOLD... TATTOOED ON HIS FORE-HEAD NOT SLEEVE AND FOR THIS REASON I ASK ALL OF HIS FAMILY, LOVED ONES, AND FRIENDS TO THINK BACK TO A MOMENT IN TIME WHEN THIS GREAT HEART WAS BEATING AGAIN DO YOU REMEMBER NOW? CAN YOU SEE AND FEEL IT WITH ME? HOW GLORIOUS NICK REALLY WAS FROM THE TOP OF HIS HEAD TO THE BOTTOM OF HIS FEET DO YOU REMEMBER THAT SPECIAL BOND OR MEMORY IN WHICH YOU AND NICK BOTH SHARED? PLEASE HOLD THAT MEMORY TIGHTLY IN YOUR HEART AND HAVE NO WORRIES OR FEARS FOR THIS MEMORY IS ONE THAT WILL SURLEY NEVER BE FORGOTTEN THIS IS BECAUSE I KNOW, EVEN IF YOU HAD JUST MET NICK, HIS HEART HAS WARMED YOU LIKE A FLEECE BLANKET MADE FROM THE FINEST OF COTTONS YOU WILL BE MISSED, YOU WILL BE LOVED JUST LOOK AROUND YOU NICK, I KNOW YOUR WATCHING FROM ABOVE LET ALL OF OUR HEARTS CRY OUT TO YOU WITH LOVE AND PRAISE I LOVE YOU SO MUCH NICK, WHAT I WOULDN’T DO FOR JUST ONE MORE DAY... ONE MORE HOUR... ONE MORE HUG... ONE MORE I LOVE YOU... NICK I LOVE YOU SO MUCH YOU WILL LIVE ON IN MY HEART AND SOLE.... LOVE YOUR BROTHER... MIKE PICCOLO AKA BART SIMPSON AKA MR. GRUMP AKA MIKEY P R.I.P. NICK PICCOLO 8-18-05
 The Broken Cord
We little knew that morning that God Was going to call your name. In life we loved you dearly, In death we do the same. It broke our hearts to lose you, You did not go alone; For part of us went with you, The day God called you home. You left us peaceful memories, Your love is still our guide; And though we cannot see you, You are always at our side. Our family chain is broken, And nothing seems the same; But as God calls us, one by one, The Chain will link again.
Love, Mom, Dad, Mike
 Love, Marni, Mike & Cristina Thank you Julie
 Thank you Michele Together we had happy times, we had some sad one's too, But the saddest day for me my love was the day that I lost you.
God took from me my moose, my love, my life, my friend, What will I do without him, on who will I depend?
Forgive me love for crying, and calling out your name, It's just that I'm so lonely and my heart's in so much pain.
Watch over me my moose, Keep me by your side,
And when the light of death's on me, Be my angel and my guide.
Love always and forever, Marni Thank you Marni
 Thank you Jana Didn't Have Time To Say Goodbye
Didn't have time to say goodbye As the angels carried me into the sky As I turned to look back trying to see I knew that tears would be shed for me
I wouldn't change anything that day When God called me to come His way All fears, doubts, and pains were gone Nothing but happiness as I entered God's home
I looked and saw family and friends grieve for me In everyones sad heart I saw special love for me As I was gazing at the family I left behind God promised we would be together once more in time
Cry not for me anymore but only rejoice Before my death I made the right choice I'm in heaven today just where you wanted me Thanks to the prayers that were prayed for me
In due time we will meet again once more I'll be waiting as you enter God's door What a great reunion that will be As we praise God together you and me
Love, Nick in Heaven
 Thank you Julie "ONLY THE GOOD DIE YOUNG" Accidents happen, that's what they all say. That's why you are gone, oh so far away.
A young life lost, to great heaven above. Flying gracefully away like a beautiful dove.
A handsome guy, with a thousand great friends. None of whose hearts will ever mend.
A bright young kid , always wearing a smile. Always willing to sacrifice and go the extra mile.
Now he is safe, and away from all harm. But we will all miss your amazing charm.
He is whispering to us now , for he is a bird. So everyone listen, do not utter a word.
We all have a new angel, who has so much to give. He will shower us with love and tell us to live.
Nick we all miss you and through it all we have hung. Because it is true, "ONLY THE GOOD DIE YOUNG".
  Light a Candle
Light a candle for those we mourn. Into a new life they will be born. Do not look for them at the gravesite. They are somewhere else radiating their beautiful light. They have gone to a new world where there is no darkness, no pain. Their light and essence will always remain. Light a candle for those who have left this mortal place. They are free to travel through time and space. When we think of them, they are near. When we sit in a beautiful garden. Their voices we hear. When we listen to a divine symphony, We close our eyes, their faces we see. Light a candle for they have not really gone. With each flickering flame, in your hearts they will always belong.

 Thank you Melody
 Were you one of the Lucky Ones?
Did you get to meet the one that lived every day as if it were his last?
Did you see that smiling face, did you hear his infectious laugh?
Did you know the one that had a hug for even the ones that fussed at him?
Did you ever go somewhere and know when the life of the party arrived?
Did you know the one that could make the best of the worst situation?
Did you feel like you were a special person around him?
Did you ever feel so loved?
Were you one of the lucky ones... THAT GOT TO MEET MY SON…


PRAYER OF ST. FRANCIS OF ASSISI
(During my son's funeral, the angels kept sounding this beautiful song of St. Francis in my mind to comfort me.(below) Thank you St. Francis for being by my side. I love you. Janet,Nick's Mom) Make me a channel of Your Peace Where there is hatred let me bring Your Love Where there is injury Your pardon Lord And where there's doubt true faith in You. Make me a channel of Your Peace Where there's despair in life let me bring Hope Where there is darkness, only light And where there's sadness ever Joy. O' Master grant that I may never seek So much to be consoled as to console To be understood as to understand To be loved as to love with all my soul. Make me a channel of Your Peace It is in pardoning that we are pardoned In giving to all men that we receive And in dying that we're born to eternal Life.


Prayer On Healing
Great God, through Jesus Christ You have revealed Yourself to be a God of the suffering. The Lord Jesus showed us ever so clearly that You are not a Divinity who watches suffering from the safety of some heavenly clime. Rather, You have proven beyond any doubt that You are near to those who suffer.
And someday You will explain to me and all of humankind of every age the “why” and the purpose and the necessity of all suffering. Of every little pain. Of every serious illness. Of every heartrending loss.
Our Lord Jesus Christ caused the deaf to hear, the blind to see, the lame to walk. He cast out evil spirits, giving His own in their place. He forgave sins, giving sinners His grace so that they would sin no more. It was the same Jesus in whom You were well pleased.
This is my assurance that I, too, shall be healed. The time and the place of my healing are hidden from my eyes. That knowledge is part of the mystery of suffering itself.
Until my healing comes, Lord, give me Your grace so that I may accept my suffering. Give me Your strength so that I will not despair. Give me Your love so that my suffering may bring me closer to You, the origin and source of all love. Amen


Jesus, You are God's Gift of Healing Love. While on earth, You healed the sick who came for help. I believe You continue to heal the sick today. Heal me and those for whom I pray. Amen.
 God grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change; Courage to change the things I can; and the Wisdom to know the difference



With Every Beat Of My Heart I Love You
It is love, not time, that heals all wounds. Grief never ends, but it changes. It is a passage, not a place to stay. The sense of loss must give way
if we are to value the life that was lived.


   
 Nick, thank you for sending me signs and beautiful dreams
 I wake up every morning To a bluebird's chirping song, I know it's music sent from Heaven To cheer me all day long.

 Truly An Angel
An Angel is what he is to me That's what he was truly meant to be. As his time on earth has past His memory will always last.
He was put to the ultimate test Now it's time for him to rest. So as he goes Heaven only knows.
That he was more Than you or me. Because an Angel is what He was truly meant to be.

 Thank you Sharon A LIFE SO LIKE A SHOOTING STAR, BURNING BRIGHT AND THEN IT'S GONE SO QUICKLY. BUT IS IT REALLY GONE ? NO, WE JUST CAN'T SEE IT ANYMORE, AND SO IT IS WITH NICKY, HIS SOUL IS STILL BURNING BRIGHT, WE JUST CAN'T SEE YOU ANYMORE.
   Thank you Michele A Face In The Clouds
I looked toward the clouds today and for a moment saw your face and wondered just where you have gone and a hope it's a better place.
Did you show yourself to me today to tell me you're alright? Or was it just a daydream playing tricks upon my sight?
Then I thought of when you left, you did not say a word. We never said good-bye, but in our hearts, your good-bye was heard.
You have changed our lives forever, your time here not in vain, and hope you know we always wanted to keep you safe from pain.
We will always feel the void inside because you are not here. But each new thought you send our way let us know you're always near.
So until our journey nears it's end and we hear the angels sing, we'll face each new day as it comes and live off the love you bring.
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In Memory of Nick 
Nicholas was very special and touched a lot of hearts in this world in the short time he was here. He was a loving and caring person with a lot of talent, beautiful smile, enormous heart, a son, brother, grandchild, godchild, nephew, cousin, and best friend. He was taken from us suddenly and unexpectedly the morning of August 18, 2005 at the age of 25.
He was a beautiful healthy 8 lb. 3 ½ oz., 20” long baby, born Sept. 27, 1979 at 9:41 a.m in St. Agnes Hospital, White Plains, NY. From the time he was born, people couldn’t take their eyes off of him. He always smiled and was such an affectionate and happy baby. When Nick was around four years old, he was picked to do commercials. Nick had his own overly imaginative mind, though, and even though he could remember the lines, “Oodles and oodles of Wise Cheese Doodles”, he felt the producer’s desk was more important to climb all over and explore. So, he blew the interview, but we were told to send in more pictures of him to do magazine ads when he calmed down a little more, which he never did.
I remember, while delivering him, the surgeon saying that his head was covered with an extra layer of skin which looked like a veil. I was told by my mother, who was also born with the veil, that you were very special to be born with it. Being born with the veil meant that you would have a lot of luck and extra protection in life. I felt this was true for Nick because he was such a free spirited person who had no fear, always living on the edge doing dangerous things and, I’m sure, always had many powerful angels watching over him all the time.
When he attended Hudson Valley Community College in Albany, NY he was doing remarkably well. He always had it in him to do well if he put his mind to it. He wrote beautiful stories, he was a born artist with amazing artistic talent, an animal lover, and he had such a love for marine biology that it came so natural to him.
Nick's dream was to become a marine biologist. While attending college to finish his degree, he worked at several aquarium shops and serviced salt water fish tanks. He was also an experienced nutritionist and personal trainer and an electrician. He was very into nutrition, and earned his certification from Manhatten College, NY to become a certified body trainer working as a private trainer and for several gyms such as, the New York Sports Club in White Plains, NY, and Club Fit in Briarcliff, NY. Along with his many trades, he also helped set up and wire the new Circuit City store in White Plains, NY of which he was commended and given an excellence award by his superior management for his remarkable work.
Even though his autopsy reports came back that he died of natural causes and heart failure, and not like the rumors said of an overdose, we have to let ourselves believe that what happened in the end was his destiny. I truly believe that we all have a destiny. A fortune teller once told me when I was very young and before I had my children, that I would have two sons, and that one would be with me a long time, but the other one was going to leave me at a very young age. Her prediction always stuck in my mind and I always wondered and hoped that she didn’t mean I would loose the one to death. I wished I never had that fortune, but I am still thankful to God for giving me Nick although for just a short time.
Through the good and bad times in raising Nick, I have no regrets. I wouldn’t have given up one second with him. Nick is truly a gift from God, a gift we are thankful we were given the opportunity to know and love. Everyone who knew Nick should be thankful they did because he was truly a good soul who would give himself up for anyone. This world was too evil and hard for him. We never realized what an impact he had on others until his death. He was a priceless gift who taught us a lot about life and love. We know his death had a purpose.
Losing Nick has been so hard on us. Some days are easier than others. We can’t escape the pain, the loss, the memories and how much we miss him so much. We have to learn to live with the hurt and know that he will always be with us spiritually until we are all together again in heaven.
We feel Nick would want to be remembered for how he lived and not how he died. He would always tell us that he wanted to do everything and anything before he turned thirty. It was as if he knew his destiny. We chose the following for his memorial thank you cards as it sums it all up.
"Afterglow" I'd like the memory of me To be a happy one. I'd like To leave an Afterglow of Smiles when day is done. I'd like to leave an echo... Whispering softly down the Ways of happy times and Laughing times and bright And sunny days. I'd like The tears of those who Grieve to dry before the Sun of happy memories That I leave behind when Day is done.
Nick’s friends still come by to visit us and talk to us about the good times they had with him. It’s nice hearing from them about all the fun times he had. It’s hard to believe that he’s gone. Some of his friends told us that they had dreams of him. We even had comforting dreams of him where he came to us and said he's felt the best he's ever felt. We know he's at a better place now, at peace and with God, and that someday we will all be together again with him. They say that when you die, even though you aren’t here bodily, you are always with your loved ones spiritually because the energy of our souls never die.We always seem to feel his presence near, and would like to think that he can see us too, and that he is at peace and happy because he definitely deserves it. Nick will forever be in our hearts.
Love, Mom, Dad, Mike


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